Juliet Grayson

I believe that everyone deserves a 'good enough' relationship and a 'good enough' sex life.

I'm a psychosexual psychotherapist, coach, and teacher. Working as a psychotherapist since 1991, I specialise in working with couples and sexual problems. I also work with people who are facing a life-limiting diagnosis.

I designed and run (alongside my team) a twelve day programme, in six modules each of two days. This teaches therapists, counsellors, psychologists, coaches, and health professionals, how to work with relationship issues and sexual problems. (CERTIFICATE IN WORKING WITH COUPLES)

After many years of exploring different types of therapeutic systems, in 2001, I discovered the Pesso Boyden System of Psychotherapy (PBSP). I am passionate about this because it is so effective, enabling clients not just to learn to cope with their issues, but to be able to (in many cases) fundamentally shift and change them, so that they see the world differently. As a client said to me, "It's like speed-dialling the unconscious." As yet, PBSP is not well known in the UK, and I want to change that. I have five ongoing groups that meet four times a year. These meet in London, Oxfordshire, Bristol, and South Wales. I also run two residential workshops every year, supervision days that are open to all, and training courses for qualified therapists who want to learn this exquisite method. Therapists who are interested in adding Pesso Boyden to their repertoire can join a one-year, or a three-year training starting in October 2019. Visit PESSO BOYDEN PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT & Pesso Boyden Training UK for details.

I am co-founder and chair of StopSO (Specialist Treatment Organisation for Perpetrators and Survivors of Sexual Offences). StopSO has a UK wide network of psychotherapists and counsellors who offer therapy in the community for those at risk of sexual offending or re-offending. The aim of StopSO is to help potential perpetrators in order to stop new victims of sexual abuse from being created. This is a cost effective way of protecting society. My view is prevent, prevent, prevent, rather than respond, respond, respond.

I'm also UKCP registered, NLPtCA accredited, COSRT accredited, and PBSP accredited as a psychotherapist. I deliver training courses (2 days - 12 days) in working with couples. I am recognised by UKCP as a NLPtCA supervisor, a COSRT supervisor. I am also an accredited PBSP supervisor and one of the first PBSP accredited trainers in the UK. I have a private practice in South Wales.


Free article on Juliet's work using Pesso Psychotherapy with sex offenders called "Back To The Root".

Landscapes of the Heart: The Working World of a Sex and Relationship Therapist – Juliet Grayson - (July 2016)